2. Advance the topic (share and guide, avoid interrogating)

When chatting about interests: “I sometimes go hiking on weekends. Last time, I reached the summit just in time for the sunset. The wind blowing was so relaxing! Do you usually stay at home or go out when you have a break?”
When chatting about work or studies: “I was rushing to finish a report today and almost spilled coffee on my keyboard. I was so flustered! Have you ever had such a ‘little blunder’ moment at work or in class?”